I Hadn't Seen This Flower in Years. Finding It Felt Like Running Into a Childhood Friend
I Hadn't Seen This Flower in Years. Finding It Felt Like Running Into a Childhood Friend . I wasn't looking for it. I was walking past the fence around a pond, my mind somewhere else entirely, when a flash of yellow caught the edge of my vision and stopped me mid-step. It took a second to place the feeling before I placed the flower — that specific jolt of recognition you get running into someone from childhood you'd stopped expecting to see again. I hadn't eaten this flower, hadn't even thought about it, in longer than I want to admit. As a kid, it went straight into bibimbap. My mother or grandmother would pick the blossoms and scatter them over the rice along with the usual vegetables, and I loved it — not just for the sweetness, which was real, but for the color, a warm orange-yellow that made the whole bowl look festive in a way plain vegetables never did. It was one of the few "special occasion" touches that cost nothing and grew in the ...